Being locked up gave me time to really look at myself, no distractions, no frontin’. I had to face my past, my mistakes, and the real reasons I’m here. It wasn’t easy, but I started to understand who I am beneath all the noise. I found parts of me I never knew existed—strength, patience, and a hunger to be better.
I built discipline from the ground up. Every day, I set my own routine, reading, working out, setting small goals to keep my mind right. That structure gave me purpose and control over my own life, even when everything else felt out of reach. I learned that change ain’t overnight; it’s about showing up every day and putting in the work, even when it’s hard.
But growth ain’t just about me. I started connecting with people on a real level, listening to their stories, sharing mine without shame. That taught me empathy and humility. I’m learning to lead with my heart, to be genuine, and to show love even when it’s tough.
I’m not the same person who walked in here. I’m stronger, wiser, and more focused. I’m proud of the progress I’ve made and ready for what’s next. I want to link up with people who get it, who know the value of honesty, second chances, and real growth. I’m here to build something better, not just for me, but for those who believe in me too.
Mellymell34, 34
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Bakersfield, CA, USA
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Confident, kind, open-minded, honest, and always growing.
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'2"
Weight
220 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
Board games, Wine tasting, Travel, Sports, Nature, Music, Movies, Cruises, Chess
Body Type
Athletic
Movies
Romantic comedy, Classics, Animation, Comedy, Drama, Fantasy, Psychological thrillers, Romance, Sci-fi, Action
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Black
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
Single
Have Kids
Yes
Education Level
High school grad
Profession
Transportation / Trucking
Income level
That's private
Do you smoke?
420
Do you drink?
No
I currently live
Alone
Socially, I am
Shy at first, but warm up quickly, Better in small groups
Political Views
Democrat
Food Related
Diet Every Now & Then, Mexican, Soul Food
Personality
Romantic, Introvert
Religious Views
Islam
I'm looking for
Dating, Conversation, Miss right, Penpal, Relationship, Travel companion
My Sign
Aquarius : jan. 20-feb. 18
Music
Soul, Rap, R and B, Punk, Karaoke, Hip Hop, Country
Hair Style
Short hair
Fitness & Sports
Basketball, Working out, Hiking, Football (U.S.)
Languages
English
My Preferred Pronouns
Name Only/No Pronouns
Social Justice
Black Lives Matter Advocate
Love Language
Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch
Highly Sensitive Type
Empath
High Sensation Seeker
Thrill Seeking
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Misc. Prison/Inmate Related
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Personals / Chat Sites
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